Olivia’s Blog

My first love was words

For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved to write; I’ve written a first novel draft and often find my messy scrawlings in notebooks intended for entirely different purposes. One day I plan to resurrect the characters from my first novel and potentially get published, although, given my love of secrecy, it will likely be under a pseudonym. I tend to read around two books per month and read and write poetry. Writing is cathartic; I often find it easier to express myself through written word than I do verbally.

I try to update my blog around once a month. I rarely plan them and instead get the urge to discuss a particular topic. So if there’s something you’d like me to discuss here, let me know.

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What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

What is 'pet play' in a BDSM sense? I frequently refer to myself in a feline sense; I call my hands and feet my 'paws' and annotate my written word with phrases like "I purred". I'm also someone who has always referred to my lovers as 'kitten' 'pooch', 'pig,' 'panda'...

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

First Dates (and Spring Summer Date Inspiration) I take a sip of my coffee and enjoy the warm sun on my skin through the train window. We've not long departed Paddington, which means I've just long enough to relax and enjoy the views before arriving at my destination....

Stories through a lens

Stories through a lens

Stories through a lens I lift the pages of this book to my face and breathe it in; it's sat at the bottom of a forgotten box for all this time. The smell transports me back to myself at 17-years-old when I read it for the first time. I am reading The Pink Hotel, a...

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The Importance of Consent and Aftercare in BDSM

The Importance of Consent and Aftercare in BDSM

I am so pleased to be back publishing one blog per month. I think it's clear that I love to write, but I didn’t expect how much you’d love reading my words. Pretty much all my recent dates told me they’d read not just one blog, but every word on my website! Which -...

The Decadence of Slow Sex

The Decadence of Slow Sex

neck kisses, wrist kisses, the palm of my hand kisses|armpit kisses, inner thigh kisses, delicate pink nipple kissessoft kisses, slow kisses, each of my tattoos kissesaudible kisses, soaking wet kisses, taking me to heaven kisses I am a highly sensual person and my...

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

What is 'pet play' in a BDSM sense? I frequently refer to myself in a feline sense; I call my hands and feet my 'paws' and annotate my written word with phrases like "I purred". I'm also someone who has always referred to my lovers as 'kitten' 'pooch', 'pig,' 'panda'...

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

First Dates (and Spring Summer Date Inspiration) I take a sip of my coffee and enjoy the warm sun on my skin through the train window. We've not long departed Paddington, which means I've just long enough to relax and enjoy the views before arriving at my destination....

Dancing with my nemesis

Dancing with my nemesis

Dancing with my nemesis Recently I was chatting with a client about the current state of the world and found myself saying that I crave mundanity for the first time in my life. What I meant by this was a time before Russia invaded Ukraine, the looming rise in the cost...

Stories through a lens

Stories through a lens

Stories through a lens I lift the pages of this book to my face and breathe it in; it's sat at the bottom of a forgotten box for all this time. The smell transports me back to myself at 17-years-old when I read it for the first time. I am reading The Pink Hotel, a...

Must I Choose?

Must I Choose?

I have chosen to live parts my life on the fringes of what many find acceptable or desirable, offering my time, my sexuality and my affection in exchange for a fee. I've also chosen to have a successful career, normal friendships and relationships with my family. I've...

Yes Olivia

Yes Olivia

In this blog I share the first time I tried a new kink with a client that went on to become one of my favourites.  He'd requested that I wear thigh-high leather boots, a leather skirt and a dinner jacket. He wanted to draw attention to us, he wanted those in the know,...

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