Olivia’s Blog

My first love was words

For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved to write; I’ve written a first novel draft and often find my messy scrawlings in notebooks intended for entirely different purposes. One day I plan to resurrect the characters from my first novel and potentially get published, although, given my love of secrecy, it will likely be under a pseudonym. I tend to read around two books per month and read and write poetry. Writing is cathartic; I often find it easier to express myself through written word than I do verbally.

I try to update my blog around once a month. I rarely plan them and instead get the urge to discuss a particular topic. So if there’s something you’d like me to discuss here, let me know.

Top Posts

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

Firstly, a pet is a person’s property, therefore it instantly creates ownership, a distinction and power dynamic between us; I am a human and you my creature. You look to me for training, reward and punishment.

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

Over the last months, my diary has become decorated with more and more first dates, which is very exciting. The opportunity to build new connections and experiences is such a fun and fulfilling part of my life.

Stories through a lens

Stories through a lens

Being photographed is incredibly erotic for me. I am an undeniable exhibitionist, and being on camera is one of the most visceral ways to experience this. To be watched, corrected, directed. My most recent shoot was paid for by a client, which formed part of a long weekend away. This was the second time we’d invited a photographer to one of our dates and having him there made it even more decadently revealing.

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Your Essential Guide to Multi-night Dates

Your Essential Guide to Multi-night Dates

Within a few months of becoming a companion, I indulged in multi-night dates in London, France, Italy and beyond. Quickly these became a monthly fixture, and these days I tend to accept between one and three multi-night dates per month. Here are my main do’s and don’ts for multi-night dates…

Autumn/Winter Date Inspiration For All Durations

Autumn/Winter Date Inspiration For All Durations

As my First Dates and Spring Summer Date Inspo blogs proved popular, I’m sharing some date ideas for all durations over the coming months for autumn winter. As mentioned, I am taking January off, but let’s get some time in our calendar between now and December.

Genesis

Genesis

Age isn’t something I have been conscious of until this year, as the youngest of three and someone who perpetually dates older partners – both men and women – I was always the young one in my social interactions. I’ve often thought there is little difference between myself and those older than I, yet suddenly, as I sail into undeniable adulthood, I can’t help but notice how age indeed changes us.

The Importance of Consent and Aftercare in BDSM

The Importance of Consent and Aftercare in BDSM

When I first became a companion, my tagline was “escape the mundane with me”, this illustrated that being Olivia was more than just a venture of financial gain and an emotional, physical and sexual release. I was entering – and later creating – safe spaces within corners that are taboo and rejected by much of the mainstream. Spaces that welcome risk, play with power dynamics, explore our full complicated selves and, if we want to, temporarily suspend ourselves from reality.

The Decadence of Slow Sex

The Decadence of Slow Sex

neck kisses, wrist kisses, the palm of my hand kisses
armpit kisses, inner thigh kisses, delicate pink nipple kisses
soft kisses, slow kisses, each of my tattoos kisses
audible kisses, soaking wet kisses, taking me to heaven kisses

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

What is ‘pet play’ in a BDSM sense?

Firstly, a pet is a person’s property, therefore it instantly creates ownership, a distinction and power dynamic between us; I am a human and you my creature. You look to me for training, reward and punishment.

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

First Dates (and Spring/Summer Date Inspiration)

Over the last months, my diary has become decorated with more and more first dates, which is very exciting. The opportunity to build new connections and experiences is such a fun and fulfilling part of my life.

Dancing with my nemesis

Dancing with my nemesis

When I first became a companion, my tagline was “escape the mundane with me”, this illustrated that being Olivia was more than just a venture of financial gain and an emotional, physical and sexual release. I was entering – and later creating – safe spaces within corners that are taboo and rejected by much of the mainstream. Spaces that welcome risk, play with power dynamics, explore our full complicated selves and, if we want to, temporarily suspend ourselves from reality.

Stories through a lens

Stories through a lens

Being photographed is incredibly erotic for me. I am an undeniable exhibitionist, and being on camera is one of the most visceral ways to experience this. To be watched, corrected, directed. My most recent shoot was paid for by a client, which formed part of a long weekend away. This was the second time we’d invited a photographer to one of our dates and having him there made it even more decadently revealing.

Must I Choose?

Must I Choose?

I personally think that being bisexual opened my mind to a darker remit of sex because shame and secrecy was always so inherent to my sexuality. I’ve never not played with power dynamics, it’s always been there.

Collaborations and Guest Posts

My Journey Into This World and Predictions for Companionship Once the World Awakens

My Journey Into This World and Predictions for Companionship Once the World Awakens

For me the following quote by Oscar Wilde illustrates my position:

‘Give a man a mask and he will tell you the truth.’

Or how I prefer it: ‘give a man a mask, and he’ll show you who he really is.’ Once you remove your identity or the consequence of what others might think, the world is a liberating playground.

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